Posts Tagged ‘socialmedia’

Generation Lost… how changing the words around impacts the meaning!

Tuesday, May 26th, 2009

I couldn’t resist sharing this one… It’s certainly not new to anyone who tweets or even for emailers for that matter. Apart from the very valid points it makes in reference to society, I love the basic reversal of words to re-engineer the point. It’s this sort of thing that makes me passionate about writing!

Social media doesn’t define me, but it is a part of me…

Monday, May 11th, 2009
Just back from a weekend up the coast… an absolutely beautiful part of the world, Port Stephens… I will have to figure out how I relocate the family up there one day, but that’s for another post.
The point of this one is just to touch on how i have been virtually uncontactable, only via mobile, while away… so no twitter, no opportunity to blog, no facebook… to be honest I didn’t miss them at all, but it was also like coming home to an old friend switching on tweetdeck and checking my emails, comments etc.
Then today I read an article in Sunday Life (lift out mag in Sun Herald) “Let them eat tweets” by Virginia Heffernan (writer for the New York Times Magazine). For those who haven’t read it, the article looks at the purpose and outcomes of involvement in twitter, and other social media networks. Click here for the full article – Let them eat tweats.
Overall, I found it a very negative view of what we reap and hopefully share from online social networks. Of course everyone has a right to their opinion, so therefore i’d like to express mine.
Over the last year (I think) that I’ve been a Twitterer and Facebooker I have not only forged new contacts, friends and networks; I have learned an enormous amount of things. I cannot possibly quantify, but here is a quick snippet:
  • Earthquake in Italy before it made it to the papers from someone on the wobbly ground
  • Blackouts in Sydney… particularly relevant as it can affect what time Mr Verb makes it home
  • Learning writing skills – both fiction and corporate writing
  • A lot I didn’t need to know about Max Markson
  • Blogging & micro blogging skills
  • Insight into the impact social media is having on business and the general public
  • On the ground updates  – words and pics – from Myanmar during mother nature’s devastation
I could go on, but I think you get the picture. It’s vast, relevant to me and has made me a better person. I am not only the person in my twitter profile, social media doesn’t define me, but it is a solid part of me and my network of business and social contacts. Without social media I wouldn’t be who I am today – I wouldn’t have connected with so many old school friends, I wouldn’t have gained certain work projects and I wouldn’t be writing this entry. Thank you for existing Social Media and thank you to all those who have made it possible!
So to that end, I say adieu until the next entry… I am off for a jog, another aspect of my world!
Quick update - to reinforce the above, I had dinner last night with two friends from high school who i haven’t been in touch with for around 18 years. The only reason we were there together having a YUMMY laksa was due to Facebook. I learned things from my friends last night, not only about their last 18 years, but also facts about the world they knew that i didn’t. Again, thank you social media!

Learning to trust… or not…

Friday, May 9th, 2008

The more I adopt social software and transact online the more I am discovering I have to trust people i don’t know and may never meet… which doesn’t come naturally to me in any way shape or form. It’s certainly not a bad thing as imagine what an impact this will have for global communications over a period of time.

If you look at my previous world of social interaction… as a cancerian, I have a hard shell in which i can hide. Perfected over years it had become quite effective when required… But that was for ‘hard copy’ social interactions… now i am having more and more ‘soft copy’ social interactions it’s a whole new ball game; with new rules, a new language and far less geographic boundaries.

Just over the last week i have had a number of interactions with eBay purchasers, emailing, calling and coming to pick up items won. Some of these interactions have been positive and some not so positive. In order to make the transaction possible i needed to have a certain degree of trust in these people. Add to this interactions I have with Twitter, Facebook, Brightkite, Blogs I realised that I am actually communicating far more with people I don’t have any physical contact with than with the people I know in person.

Then this leads me to think about the value of a hard copy as opposed to a soft copy, interaction. Do humans need to have hard copy interactions to exist as ‘normal’ human beings… if all you had were soft copy social networks how would humans evolve differently? What will happen to our language and what will my two and four year old be doing when they’re in their thirties???

When I was young I was taught not to trust strangers… but what do i teach my children, now that I am having to cross my traditional boundaries. If people followed these traditional boundaries then all these fabulous online communities wouldn’t be germinating. I am not really sure there is an answer to this pondering… but it’s been good exploring it.